YAOXIAOSHU Story picture book

Why are the young people of this generation so anxious? In many cases, anxiety stems from one's own lack of recognition.

How do you put this sentence? For instance, say you think you are very talented and hope that others also think you are talented. If everyone doesn't recognize or identify your talent. You will create conditions or scenarios to help everyone recognize that you are talented. This process of creating identification means is the goal that many people strive for and the cause of their anxiety. So, the content in Moments is actually a way for others to help you recognize them.

So the question arises: If you have a clear goal yourself, do you need others to recognize you?

Today's China has begun to enter an era of class solidification, and it is becoming increasingly difficult to overcome. So nowadays, young people tend to lie flat because they can't see any hope despite their efforts. Don't judge whether this is good or not, nor sell anxiety. It can only be said that this is a personal choice.

Personally, I don't think it's the last time to lie down yet. In fact, at present, there is still a door left for young people, and that is starting a business. Although starting a business is extremely risky and involves a high risk of death, especially in today's society. But even so, this is still one of the few ways for China to transcend class boundaries at present. Perhaps in a few years, there won't even be any chance to start a business. Take a look at our neighbor Japan. The entire society as a whole has entered a period of low desire. All industries are in a state of intense competition, making it almost impossible to start a business.

So, if you want to open a door for yourself. Then go ahead and start a business.

How to relieve stress when it comes? It is estimated that everyone's way is different. Some like shopping, while others enjoy having a couple of drinks. I prefer playing games, and they must be violent ones. Besides, I prefer military affairs. So, the game I played was a first-person shooter with a military theme.

The first time I came into contact with this kind of game should be Counter-Strike CS. I was quite shocked to see this game in the Internet cafe at that time. It has a first-person perspective. Both sides were Shouting and fighting fiercely, and the audience was also roaring. Since then, I have been particularly fond of playing such games. Including the later "Call of Duty", "Battlefield" series and so on. In the game, you can play as soldiers from different camps and choose the weapons you like. Then, they jumped out of the trenches and engaged in a fierce battle. Emotions are released in the killing, tense and thrilling. After several fierce battles, I was drenched in sweat. Then take several big gulps of water. My mood immediately improved

I have a habit that might be bad, which is that I like to cross my legs. And it's the habitual type where the left leg touches the right leg. And it's not just about putting it on; the foot of the left leg should be hooked onto the lower leg of the right leg. Viewed from the side, it looks like a twisted dough.

I usually don't do this. But there is one situation that is rather serious, which is when you are thinking about something but can't figure it out. There has been an analysis of what the reason is. Perhaps it's because when I'm thinking, the tension in my brain is transmitted to my body. Then, the body will find a position that it considers safe to tense up. So that the brain can be more focused. Over time, it became a habit.

So I think everyone has habits that are different from others. As long as they don't interfere with others, that's fine.

By accident, I've already reached the 30th issue, which can be regarded as a small milestone in the process of shaking the little tree.

For someone like me who loves freedom, it's still quite difficult to keep doing one thing. Just take a look at my own weight loss plan and you'll know that form outweighs substance. It's just a fleeting enthusiasm. But in this regard, Xiaoshu did better than me. It seems that this shortcoming was not inherited.

Another problem is that I'm a perfectionist. In the Internet environment, a perfectionist would be a disaster for doing the act of shaking a small tree. Because you can't think one thing through completely. But when one doesn't feel very satisfied, it can be very perplexing. For instance, the previous form of shaking the little tree with text and illustrations seemed okay to me, but after a while, it wasn't very smooth. Eventually, I changed it to a form of sound and illustrations. There might still be changes later on.

But I'm still very glad to have reached the 30th issue. So I rewarded myself with a pair of bookshelf speakers as an encouragement.

Nowadays, children all learn to swim in swimming pools. I learned swimming in the reservoir.

One summer vacation, the weather was extremely hot. The sun is particularly strong at noon. In the afternoon, the adults would get ready to take a bath at the reservoir and also take us kids there. The sun had been shining for most of the day, and by the afternoon, the water wasn't very cold. Back then, there were no swimsuits or trunks; everyone swam naked. The children are in the shallow water area. The adults are in the deep water area. There is no standard life buoy. Use the inner tubes of truck tires as lifebuoys and rubber boats. Swimming is all about imitation, and the water splashes are particularly big. After several attempts, I finally learned it. But it was only when I grew up that I realized. The name of the swimming stroke I learned when I was a child was "Dog Paddle".

I heard a sentence recently. It is said that life actually has no meaning. Then, in order to make one's life meaningful, one has to find some meaningful things to do. Then make your life meaningful. This sentence is a bit hard to pronounce. But upon careful consideration, it seems that this is indeed the case. It feels quite depressing to be meaningful just for the sake of it. But isn't that it? Otherwise, why would you come to this world?

In fact, very few people have been able to find that matter. If that thing could be done, there would be even less. If it can be made, then it will be as fine as phoenix feathers and unicorn horns.

The person who said this has already seen life very clearly. It's probably hard for anyone to think it through clearly before the age of 30. The meaning of life lies in your own definition. You can choose to be ambitious or to be a fish. The years are peaceful and quiet.

Is there any terrifying scene from a TV drama that left a deep impression on you?

When I was a child, my family lived in the family compound of my workplace, which was surrounded by walls. My parents work at the office and often hold meetings in the evening to study the "meeting spirit". So sometimes, all the adults in the family compound would go to the auditorium for a meeting. That courtyard became particularly quiet. Sometimes my parents would take me along if I fell asleep earlier. They will leave me at home.

Once, I woke up in the middle of the night and found that there was no one in the room and it was very dark. I just want to turn on the TV and secretly take a look. After turning on the TV, at first, the screen was filled with the noise of a snowflake. When it becomes clear, there is a scene of an old grandma in a horror film. It was just this one scene that left a clear impression on me over the following dozen years.

“What is the ”heart"?

It's the line quietly drawn in the middle of the desk in my youth, the neat handwriting filled stroke by stroke on the exercise book, and the ponytail gently swaying on the way home from school, carrying the fragrance of shampoo. It's the fluttering corner of the clothes during the break when skipping rope, the indelible scent of the sun on the blue and white school uniform, and the half-piece of eraser secretly handed over, concealing the unspoken heart flutter.

It was the bitter winter in Beijing when I was young, or the umbrella shared by two people at the No. 120 bus stop on a rainy day. It's that dilapidated bungalow with trees within the Second Ring Road. It's a freshly baked hot pancake from Chaonei Market. Take a bite and you'll be filled with the warmth of daily life. It was the sudden embrace that burst out from the street corner every time, the Yanjing beer cans that bumped into each other in front of the night market stall, the soft whispers about the future on the bench in the old courtyard in the middle of the night, and that wandering magazine with curled edges, holding the ticket stub of that time.

It's the tension and anticipation of pacing back and forth in the corridor of the obstetrics and gynecology hospital in middle age. It was the soft weight in my palm when I first picked him up, and the smile that melted all my fatigue when he looked at me. It was the instant reddened eyes when he called out “Dad” indistinctly for the first time. It was that sentence hidden deep in my heart - “Thank you for bringing him into this world and saving me as well.”

Don't have too much pressure. When pressure comes, many troubles will also follow. The world is not perfect, neither people nor things. We need to learn to accept this. Impulse is the sharpness of youth; what is needed now is calmness and composure.

Don't care about others' opinions. When you want to stop, please take a deep breath to slow yourself down. Then relax your whole body and listen to your inner self. Don't force it.

When you are relaxed. You will see the light and the wind will become gentle. Your world will be colorful. You will start to smile, become composed and polite. It will create an atmosphere and aura surrounding you. Your will will be firmer, and you will have the composure and courage to face everything. There will be clear thinking and acute intuition. Then return to your original self.

So when something happens, don't panic. Just relax.

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